I just spent a couple of days with Seth Godin, the author of Tribes and Purple Cow. While there are several thoughts and illustrations from our time together captured in my notes, there is one idea that I have circled with the message, “Write blog.” This is my attempt to convey what I was pondering when I drafted my message.
Give yourself permission to fail. I don’t mean permission to fail at small things like picking up the kids late from school or forgetting to pack toothpaste for your road trip (I do these things regularly). I mean the kind of big failures that cause your friends and family to whisper, “What was he/she thinking?”
Each year, I meet dozens of talented and educated people in their 20’s and 30’s who are looking for the role they should play in society. Having been raised in a culture where failure is considered a character flaw, they have been trained to be...